Reconnecting to Your Intention

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“Conscious intention colors and moves everything”
– Master Hsing Yun

In many of the blog posts I often talk about the power of intention and inner conviction; that the universal source provides or supplies everything and within you is the ability to create. You have the ability to will what you desire, and more importantly to live your imagination.  What I mean is that your will or desire is one thing–to drive hard and focus on what you want, how you want to live your life, etc.  It’s your determination.

But in your imagination you become what you think about. Think of your imagination as the catalyst or the source that makes things happen. To realize your intentions, through the tool and power of your imagination, you need to work in a state of higher or more positive energy. Think about it this way, you attract what you think about. Your thoughts are energy and if you are letting in doubt, distraction or negativity, the universe will respond to that as what is.

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If you focus on what you don’t want–don’t want to be, don’t want to go, don’t want to feel, you are perpetuating that as what is and you will attract these negative states or actions. The “don’t want,” doubt and fear are negative, and on a deeper level they are a distraction from inner knowing or trust in the universal source of abundance.

We humans have a tendency when we do not like what is occurring in our lives, to complain or think of what we do not like, want, etc. It’s sort of like swimming up-stream or going against the tide. When we think and speak of what we do not want, do not like, what hurts us or what makes us unhappy, we are swimming against the flow of the universe and stifling our ability to float to our intentions and manifestation of our imagination or desires.

Focusing on what you want in the spirit and state of love, compassion and trust puts forth positive energy and attracts positivity in return. When you complain about something or let distraction in, have you not noticed that even more negative thoughts or actions come soon after? The same applies when you focus on the positive and do not let distractions in; more realizations of the good in your life come to you and you set in motion the profound yet simple knowing that the universe supplies everything.

When you find yourself thinking negative thoughts, coming at things from a place of fear or doubt, simply acknowledge the feeling, accept and embrace that you have the right to feel this way and let them go. Re-engage your imagination–visioning yourself in your desired state, place and of being. Examine your self-imposed obstacles and challenges and remove them, and live the intent that has been placed in your heart and soul.  Reconnect to your intentions and the knowing that you have the power to create anything that is in your imagination.

Standing Waves

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“The heavy is the root of light. The unmoved in the source of all movement”

– Tao Te Ching

 

Earlier this year I wrote about riding the wave (Ride the Wave) of collective energy that is put out to the universe to ignite or fuel your intentions–to launch yourself on every wave. One way to look at these types of waves (going back to our school days of science) is that they are traveling waves. Waves that are picking up collective energy, and that are not confined to a given space, like the waves of an ocean. But it is also possible for a wave not to travel anywhere, but to simply oscillate in place, maintaining a fixed wavelength of frequency. These are called standing waves.standing wave3

Like these standing waves, we as humans also have standing waves–whereby we may physically appear (and feel) that we are standing still as the world about us is rapidly moving–in a constant state of traveling waves. That feeling like everything around you is moving while you stand in the middle of it is like being on a fast train where you experience the illusion that the train is standing still and the buildings and trees are moving backwards.

In our standing waves—when we are standing still to regroup, to rest, to reflect and to be in conversation with life, energy is flowing dynamically within our bodies. Our human standing waves appear to be still but they have constant movement within them. This is a movement that removes us from or rises us above traveling movement or waves, to what can be defined as a higher level of movement. In this state we have the ability to clearly hear our inner voice and to deepen our relationship with and understanding of the universal energy that flows through us.

These standing still moments are where we evolve from and where we become awakened. They are where we discover that there is so much more to life–and how we are universally connected. They are where the universe speaks to us. In stillness–in our standing wave–there is amazing movement that goes beyond creating an inner peace and sense of well-being. There is a movement in the stillness where your mind meets your soul and the action that the universe intends blossoms.

The Power of Ritual to Create Positive Change & Transformation

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I thought I would touch on the subject of rituals and the power they hold to help us create positive change and transformation in our lives. Ritual, by definition as to what I am referring to is:  a formal ceremony or series of acts that is always performed in the same way or an act or series of acts done in a particular situation and in the same way each time. An old saying in the martial arts is that ‘repetition is the mother of all skill’.  Performing a daily ritual is in a sense the best illustration of this and it need not be formal by any means.

So where am I going with this and what does this have to do with enhancing your health and wellness? Well to start, if you perform a healthy daily ritual or series of healthy rituals such as a particular workout regimen or healthy eating and drinking habits you can dramatically impact your life in positive way. Rituals can be very powerful because they in a sense force us to be consistent, and with consistency comes results.

I touched upon this subject in an earlier post I wrote back in late July of last year – 5 Daily Rituals to Have More Energy, Promote Lean Muscle Mass & Muscle Recovery. There I gave examples of some simple rituals you can incorporate into your daily life to achieve a certain result.  Most people go through their daily routines (or rituals as I like to call them) without really giving what they do much thought.  You can use these routines as a springboard to transform your life and make positive change.

How? Well I am glad you asked… through simple substitution. For example, something so simple as to how you wake up in the morning. Instead of hitting the snooze button a few times and dreading getting up for work (like many people do), you can start with the habit of reciting a positive mantra to yourself on how you are looking forward to your day and how much you are grateful to be alive another day on this planet and then hopping right out of bed.

sunburstdarkThis will help energize you and get you started for the day on the right foot. They say that it takes about 21 days to create a new healthy habit where you just do it automatically and it is ingrained. Doing something new like this, or anything else worthwhile may be tough at first, but if you stick it out for 21 days to about a month or so, before you know it you will be doing it automatically and it will be second nature.

In the case of this example, you will actually wake up more energized as time goes on. A quick tip if you want to try this, is to tell yourself how great you will feel in the morning right before you go to bed at night as it will help prepare and program your mind.

I encourage you to examine what you do on a consistent basis everyday that is not very productive or the healthiest of habits and how you can substitute in a healthy habit or ritual to create positive change in your life. What I will also say is not to go overboard at first and try to change everything you do and flip your life upside down right off the bat… even if it’s in the name of making positive change in your life. The reason being is that you won’t stick with it because it will be too drastic and it’s a recipe for failure.

Go gradual, pick one thing you are doing now that you can substitute in something more healthy and positive and get that down before adding in anything else.  Another example that I incorporated into my life was swapping watching tv for meditation right when I got home from work – a much more effective and healthy way to decompress I must say.

This idea can also be done on a smaller scale with the little things in your life, such as having green tea –  instead of coffee, slowing down – instead of rushing, being grateful for the little things – instead of focusing on what you don’t have, letting someone else speak instead of talking over them… are just a few things that come to mind. Granted, these aren’t really rituals, but you can see how this idea can really make you examine yourself deeper and be more mindful.

This can really build on itself over time if you stick with it and gain momentum like a snow ball effect. It is really the little things in life that together over time have the biggest impact on us.  The next thing you know you are a completely different, more positive and healthy person with a new perspective on life!  I encourage you again to experiment with this and see what kind of positive changes you can make in your life.

Standing Still

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Sometimes the more I work on this change stuff, of finding my purpose and living my passion, the more I feel like I’m standing still, and I have “what the hell am I doing” moments. OK, I’ll admit they are more than moments. There are times when they are just complete breakdowns and they stay with me for a while. Maybe it’s because I feel I’m “in-between;” in-between something that I do now and something that I’ll be doing in the future. In-between seasons of my life—of who I was and who I’m evolving to become; and in-between holding on and letting go.

I pull myself together to take on the day, to live up to my commitments and responsibilities and to stay in the moments of the day. I get my mindset in order—reflecting on the emotions, calming myself and ensuring myself that I am learning and growing from this, and everything will be OK and is OK, and that I’m right where I’m suppose to be. (And I do believe this.) I regroup and drive forward with ideas and plans. And actually there are many days when I feel wonderfully productive, content and even excited, but there are those days when I look at myself in the mirror and ask myself “What are you doing?” So back to the cycle of “in-between-ness” and working through that (again).

So it really got me thinking. I started to ask myself when I regroup am I picking up the same pieces in the same order?  So what I discovered (and, yes, the discovery process is always underway) is that I do. It’s a way to get back to functional. I’m somewhat comfortable with that—getting back to functional, but I do need to pick up the pieces in a different order, and even maybe let some pieces out and put some new pieces in.

On Story People I came across this wonderful quote, “When you start to crack open, don’t waste a moment gathering your old self up into something like you knew before. Let your new self splash like sunlight into every dark place & laugh & cry & make sounds you never made & thank all that is holy for the gift, because now you have no choice but to let all your love spill out into the world.”

So when I experience those times of breaking because I’m feeling “in-between,” let it spill out and put a light into those dark places where I may feel like I’m not making progress, where I feel change is not happening fast enough, where I feel I’m letting others and myself down, where I beat myself up for feeling like I can’t break out of some self imposed or defined cycle, or where I’m living by someone else’s expectations. Let the light expose new things about myself. This is a gift.

Through my thinking, I also started to ask myself am I making promises to myself that I don’t keep and do I have too many “if-only’s”. Let me take the making promises one first. I start to feel torn on things I want to do and things I have to do., and I feel that I’m not making progress toward the things I want to do. In efforts to make progress, I start to take too many things on. I start to feel stressed, overwhelmed, sad or lonely, and at times it feels safer to just watch the world through a window. And then I start the promises to myself—with the “tomorrow I’ll (fill in the blank)”.  So a remedy—stop the promises. They are setting up expectations that are fueling a negative cycle. I will start where I am at and get out in the world.

Now on the “if-only’s” and “when’s.” Let’s face it, there is really never going to be a perfect time, place or set of circumstances. As the old-adage goes, “there is no time like the present.” So I’m working on removing the “if-only’s” and “when’s” from my thinking and vocabulary, and simply starting where I’m at because that is just fine. When I’m feeling “in-between” there is little that can help until I move. It’s not about what direction I decide to go, but simply the fact that I’m moving. And once in motion, things start to get clearer, ideas louder and motivation increases. Movement brings a clarity and creates momentum.

I’m sure I’ll continue to have my bouts of “standing still” and “in-between.” They are part of life’s journey and I have to learn to accept and embrace them—and to move through them. And there lies a bit of the answer—movement. In movement energy is created and inspiration found (as you see and do different things and meet different people). So standing still is OK, but make sure you don’t stand still too long! Just move on what your heart at the moment is telling you and start where you are. It is  movement that creates stepping stones in your life.

The Intuitive Self

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“Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends.”
–One Stab, Legends of the Fall

 
This is a great quote from one of my favorite movies. It brings to mind how simple, yet how complex it can be to live your life listening to and being guided by your inner voice. And how hearing and listening to your inner voice can give you clarity, direction and peace of mind–and help you fulfill your life’s intention.

So what is your inner voice? To me it is your authentic self and your intuitive self—intuitive as in your natural instincts and the voice of your soul’s purpose. One way to look at it is that your inner voice is your soul’s whispers to you—the hints about where to turn or go, quiet guidance that gets louder when you don’t at first listen to it; where your intentions are set and where reminders of your passions live; where ideas are formed and imagination is fueled; and where your emotions and feelings are grounded.

Your inner voice is yours and yours alone. It knows what is best for you at any given time and functions always in your best interest and in ways that the rational mind can’t always understand. Sometimes—and we have all experienced this—your inner voice may not make sense to your logical mind.

Many of us have experienced that feeling of something not “feeling” right—where your senses are heightened, things may not “add up,” etc., but logically you can’t articulate or define why in that moment. It just is and when you act based on that inner voice you feel safe, content, better—that you did the “right” thing. Your inner voice provides you with internal guidance that never fails you.

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At times it can be difficult to be in tune with your inner voice, and not only to listen but to live by your inner voice. There are so many distractions—over stimuli in our daily lives that result in physical and mental noise. In a world of data and more data, we begin to believe that we need evidence to make the “right” decision or take an action.

Then there are expectations (Freeing Yourself of Expectations) that we impose on ourselves and that others impose upon us. And we let ourselves be influenced by the opinions of others—since we become unsure of ourselves. We start to not trust our “gut” or intuition and (back to the world of data) there seems to be unspoken (negative) judgments about going by your “gut.”

Steve Jobs in his speech to the graduating class as Stanford University soon after his diagnosis of terminal cancer told the graduating class, “Don’t let the voice of others’ opinions drown out your inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.”

Take time to listen—really listen—to your inner voice. Don’t discount it. Don’t question it. Don’t turn your back on it when others question you or think you are not making sense. Learn to trust it and embrace it.

Your inner voice is not going to be heard like a literal voice. It whispers (or sometimes shouts) to you in many, many ways. These include gut feelings or hunches, dreams (day or night), moments of clarity (Clarity), impulse moments, repeated urges to do something; and in physical ways such as a shiver, goosebumps, waking up suddenly in the night, and many others. Pay attention to what you are feeling–and don’t over-think it. Acknowledge that this is your inner voice reaching out to you–telling you something. Listen to it!

To hear your inner voice consistently and to grow your trust in it, it helps to dedicate quite time each day when you can connect to your thoughts and emotions. For some, they like to do this in a meditative state or in a quite space. For others, they can do this when being active, such as when exercising, driving to work, taking a walk, cooking, etc. It’s important to make this part of your routine so that you don’t let the outer stimuli and others’ voices and expectations and demands drown out your inner voice. I would love to hear from you on how you hear your inner voice and the difference it has made in your life.

Clarity

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“Brushing the clouds away from my eyes, I see clarity in the raindrop and beauty in the first ray of morning sun…”
 

We have all experienced them at points in our lives–those moments of clarity. Sometimes they are so brief. They happen in the matter of a few seconds or in the blink of an eye. Other times they are a bit more lasting–but then our minds turn on again and they fade. Moments of clarity bring a lightness, a peace, a smile–and they sometimes bring an excitement, a thrill–or a “I have connected the dots” moment where something comes into your consciousness that helps you see more clearly, helps you understand a circumstance, etc.

They are as unique to you as you are. They may even be different or unique each time you have one. There is no cookie cutter moment of clarity or a prescribed formula for conjuring them on demand. But for most of us, if you take a few minutes to think about when you have had moments or times of clarity, you will probably note that they came about when your mind was not in overdrive (even for a split second); when you were doing something different or what some may call “mindless”, like cleaning the house, waiting in line at the grocery story, driving, cooking, riding your bike,  etc.

Now–these for sure are not mindless activities. You do need to focus on the task at hand, but they do represent something you may have been doing that totally took your mind out of your normal thinking pattern or off an issue or challenge playing out in your life. It helped you put your mind on the shelve for a bit–so that when you pick it back up again you do so with renewed energy, with more “pieces” in place or dots connected and a clearness, etc.

clear lakeMoments of clarity are meant to be and are provided by the universe as a gift–not only for your mind to take a break, but to help you evolve, have peace, gain insight, etc.

We are all born into this physical world with minds that are clear, open and pure. They are like a blank canvas waiting to be colored by experiences. As we grow we develop capabilities that help us live in this world. We develop memory, intelligence and creativity.  We also develop a lot of mental stuff–as we get increasingly bombarded with information (overload); we accumulate memories-good and bad and we are surrounded by lots of noise, drama and the hustle and bustle of daily life.  New pressures or worries enter, expectations (Freeing Yourself of Expectations) increase, and we move to and through more and more experiences.

Now–as I mentioned, there isn’t necessarily a magic formula or a series of prescribed “to do’s” that can let you have your moment of clarity right now on demand. First, your moments of clarity are yours and only yours–inspired and fueled by where you are currently in life, your experiences, your intentions, your “DNA,” and values and beliefs.

Second, we all have things that we do to break away from our minds for a bit–turning the radio up in the car with the windows rolled down, taking a walk outside, watching a movie, sitting on plane, meditation, etc. Times when we are out of our element and put ourselves (consciously or unconsciously) in the moment.

Creating more moments of clarity in your life is possible –they are provided to you by you. It starts with being in-tune with yourself (Love Thy Self), recognizing that your mind may be in overdrive, noticing that you may have a lot of noise or drama going on and paying attention to what helps you calm your mind or distract you from the stuff replaying in your mind.  Once you have them (or even just one thing), do them. Remind yourself to take that mental break.

That said, it does not necessarily mean you will have that “on-demand” moment of clarify. But the more you do those things–make them part of you–the more your mind can have those restful times. And this helps your mind to get out of cycles of repetitive or negative thinking, to see possibilities and embrace your intuition–giving your mind the break that helps  let in the clarity.

I look forward to hearing from you–and your special moments of clarity.

Freeing Yourself of Expectations

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“Let your dreams outgrow the shoes of your expectations”
– Ryunosuke Satoro

 

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As we journey through our lives and even through a determined process of change we tend to live in and set expectations. Expectations take many forms—from what we expect of ourselves to what others expect of us, and what we expect of others. They are somewhat “inbred” in us from our upbringing, lifestyle, experiences, etc.

In short, we all have a multitude of small expectations that present themselves everyday–expectations on how people should behave, how someone should dress for a work meeting, when someone should call us back after a date, etc. And we have larger expectations–which may be fewer but they have a more pronounced, deep or emotional impact. These may include expectations of your chosen life style, of relationships, of belief systems, etc.

These expectations–small, medium or large–can work to negatively impact and even undermine your life. You carry them with you and  when they are “not met” cause you to be upset and even disillusioned–and cause you suffering. And for the most part, for many we don’t really notice them or think about them when we start to feel this way and explore our emotions.

When you have expectations, you have preconceived ideas of how things should be to which you are attached. Expectations, especially the big or large ones, can cause long periods of sadness, hurt, impatience and disappointment. Think about it for a few minutes–the amount of suffering that comes from expectations–those we recognize and those we may not. We sometimes unwittingly become enslaved by our expectations of what defines a good person, success, happiness, etc. We need to learn how to free ourselves from these expectations and choose not to be defined by them.

As you learn to free yourself from expectations–self imposed, inherited or adopted–you will become more aware of them and not permit them to define you or your life. So how do you start to free yourself from expectations?

A first step is to honestly acknowledge your expectations and observe how they present themselves in your life and how they make you feel, react and behave. For most, we use expectations to help us make sense of the world or have some “control” in the world and of our lives. We need to understand that these expectations of ourselves and others causes judgement and can set us up for disappointment.

Once you start to understand this and how your expectations manifest themselves, you can work on being mindful–to be in the present moment and to acknowledge and accept what is true in the present moment without judgement. It also helps to think about or look for possibilities (as opposed to expectations). Expectations predispose your thinking and behavior on an assumed result in the future. Actually, they reduce your options, limit your imagination and cast a shadow on possibilities.

When expectations “control” you, you cannot be “in” or free in the present moment. Your mind wanders and focus is lost, and you get driven to an emotional and judgemental state. When you focus on possibilities, however–based in the present moment–you are more alive and function more fully based on your values. Living your life open to possibilities is having faith in your life and helping your mind and heart to be open in the moment. It helps you be open to and accept change.

As you learn to free yourself from expectations you need to be real with yourself.  You need to not deny or avoid the existence of your expectations. No one is really beyond having expectations. The important thing is to know you have them, put them in a place that helps you evolve and grow and where you can open yourself to possibilities. While you work on exploring and understanding expectations and freeing yourself of them, it’s important to embrace where you are in life–to embrace where you are right now and who you are.

Expectations can create fear because you may think what you desire may not happen. When you are free of expectations, you can move with the flow of the universe and not be overly or negatively affected by outcomes. In one way, these outcomes actually move you towards a greater realization of your desires and intentions. And you may be surprised when you unearth how much freedom you have when you let go of expectations.

Smash Negative Thinking

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“I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening. I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can chose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have — life itself.”   — Walter Anderson

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Many times in your life you may find yourself having feelings of panic or anxiety. You feel your heart racing, can’t catch your breath, you may feel shaky, light-headed, dizzy, etc. They seem to just come out of no-where or they are a physical reaction to something–an upsetting experience like a close call while driving, seeing something disturbing on the news or a work or home challenge.

I know panic attacks are real and can be extreme for some. They can rob you of your ability to think, remember and concentrate. If you are experiencing panic attacks, it’s best to get medical attention. There are tremendous resources and techniques to help.

In this post I want to talk about the feelings of dread or panic that get triggered by situations where we react negatively. We live in a dynamic world with lots of stimuli, and we react to a range of stimuli every day. Most of our reactions are subtle or incidental–like changing the TV station when we don’t like the commercial or show or moving our seat on the train when someone around us is loud.

Others are more significant and can impact us more deeply or even long term, especially in the context of how we create patterns of negative reactions. In short, reacting negatively becomes a habit or we create an emotional negative cycle.

For some of us, we have become quite good at reacting negatively, and sometimes these reactions in real time bring in those feelings of panic, fear or anxiety, and come with physical side effects (headache, upset stomach, feeling jittery). And  we let the emotions and these feelings take over. We start to ask why is this happening (again), and we don’t ask ourselves the question of what can I learn from this or we don’t take a step back to calm ourselves or reflect.

In short, we lose sight that we can manage how we react so we can move through the emotions, feelings and physical effects more quickly, and over time lessen our negative reactions that cause our minds and bodies discomfort and stress.

While we sometimes have to relinquish control over situations, we can still maintain our connection to ourselves. There are no right or wrong reactions, but only what serves us. Being self aware through the reaction and the process is important. Noting that you may be creating a pattern of negative reactions and realizing the impact your attitude has on your experiences is a first step.

You do have a choice of how you are going to respond or react. Try not to let something dictate how you react to things. You have the power and the inner strength to lessen the negative reaction and move more quickly through the emotional event.

Below are a few tips to help you when you find yourself feeling that feeling of panic or anxiety and reacting negatively:

  • Learn to recognize your negative reaction triggers. Think and reflect on what the situations are that make you susceptible to these triggers. We can’t always avoid them, but being aware can help you prepare and acknowledge them is a more positive way.
  • Practice positive self talk. You can use the old adage of “what is the worse that can happen,” and talk calmly and kindly to yourself with thoughts and words of “slow down,” “breath,” “I’m really OK,” etc.
  • Do deep breathing. Take deep, slow breaths.
  • Visualize. Close your eyes and with the deep breathing visualize a place where you are relaxed, calm and at peace. Stay there a while.
  • Do something physical. Take a walk, get out and get some fresh air, clean a closet. Physical acts not only get your mind off of things, they help you use that extra adrenaline and cortisol.
  • Call a friend. Sometimes just having someone listen where you can talk it out makes a big difference. But remember, try not to dwell–let it out and move on.
  • Avoid over analyzing. Playing it over and over with the “should haves” or “what-ifs” is just perpetuating the negativity. Let it go.
  • Journal it. Write what you are feeling. You can even write down the negative thoughts you are feeling and then simply throw them away or burn them.
  • Let the emotions flow and go through them with no judgement. Use reflection and grounding techniques.
  • Use the experience to learn about yourself and embrace that.

Remember reacting negatively is not going to change what happened, but how you manage your reaction can help change and evolve you. Turn around negativity when you notice it and infuse positivity on a regular basis.

The more positive thought you think consciously the less negative thoughts your mind will create over time. Embrace your positive warrior! I hope you found this helpful and we would love to hear from you on how you combat negative thoughts and what you do to reduce anxiety.

Vitality – A Life Force

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“A strong life force can be seen in physical vitality, courage, competent judgment, self-mastery, sexual vigor, and the realization of each person’s unique talents and purpose in life. To maintain a powerful life force, forget yourself, forget about living and dying, and bring your full attention into this moment.”
― H.E. DaveyJapanese Yoga: The Way of Dynamic Meditation

 

This week I will be writing about vitality. As you work on getting your mind, body and soul aligned and work on becoming the best you you can be, the concept of vitality and the strength of vitality is centrally important to the well being of not only your body or physical self, but also of your mind and soul.

So, what is vitality. It is the state of being strong and active. It is energy. It refers to one’s life, life force and ability to live. It is the force or power manifested in all living things.

In the physical and mental sense, vitality refers to a feeling of aliveness–of feeling healthy, capable and energetic. In the mental or emotional sense, this “aliveness” brings a feeling that your actions have meaning and purpose. It indicates an infusion of positive energy into your being.                                                       holding_sun_1

For most of us we think of vitality as being healthy and active, and think of people with vitality being upbeat, energetic and positive. Good health is a vitality enhancer and healthy choices lead more directly to vitality. Vitality is also impacted by your mind set and attitude–and your ability to embrace where you are today and to work toward your intentions.

Vitality takes on many dynamic forms–mental, emotional and physical, including sexual vitality.
I think for most of us when we think of vitality we think of the physical–as having the energy to do things and having strength and stamina. This plays out in everyday life–from work and taking care of the kids to exercise and the bedroom (Warrior Rx and Warrior DAX for Vitality). It is being able to do all things with vigor.  Having your body effectively supplied with nutrients and adequate rest.

Mental vitality is having the mental energy to think clearly. It means that you are in good mental shape and have thinking stamina to handle problems or what life throws your way. It is about being mentally alert and effective. Mental vitality does require physical vitality, since good blood flow and nutrients are important for the brain to function and for healthy mental processes. You can think about your brain like a muscle in that exercise and continuous use of it will push you to learn new things and to have new or different experiences. This will make it stronger and improve your endurance and stamina. Just like muscles, gaining mental strength is helped by good mental workouts.

Emotional vitality is more about having a positive or up-beat attitude that helps you with being grounded, content and enthusiastic. The better the state of your emotional vitality the better you will be positioned to deal with challenges and stress that come your way. Working on your emotional vitality will help increase your emotional endurance and stamina and maintain a positive outlook.

When we think about emotional vitality in terms of good mental and emotional health, this is about keeping yourself free of mental “toxins” that can impact the way you think. Mental toxins include such things as opinions and criticisms that affect your motivation, esteem, confidence and courage. You can gain emotional vitality from feeding your emotions positive thoughts. It’s about reinforcing and embracing all your emotions,  even those that you consider negative, such as sadness, hurt, anger and loss.

These need to be positively accepted as part of you and it’s OK to go through the process of experiencing them, but with a positive mindset that they are part of you, they are real and you need to process them. This is related to reflection (Reflections) and allowing yourself to fully experience your emotions. Try not to suppress them.

You can think of vitality as being the “connective tissue” or the outcome of a balanced body, mind and soul–where you are in good physical condition by taking care of your body with good nutrition and exercise. Your mind and emotional state is being nurtured and you are centered and grounded. And your soul or spiritual self is at peace and fulfilled. Paying attention to these aspects of you, how they are connected and how when aligned bring to you vitality will help you experience a passion for and joy in living, physical endurance (Warrior Rx and Warrior DAX for Vitality) and mental alertness.

Strength Through Diversity

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“Diversity is not about how we differ. Diversity is about embracing one another’s uniqueness.”

 – Ola Joseph

 

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The human race is so extraordinary diverse in so many ways. The concept of diversity encompasses acceptance and respect. It means appreciating that each of us is unique, and recognizes that with those differences come different strengths and abilities. It is about understanding each other and celebrating the rich dimensions of diversity contained within each individual and embracing the unique warrior (Embrace the Warrior) in ourselves and others.

These differences can be of age, race, color, gender, sexual orientation, life style, philosophy, culture, disabilities, religious beliefs, or other ideologies. These are also in how we each think, react, process information, communicate, work, rest, love, etc.  The areas in which we differ are simply endless.

Valuing diversity recognizes differences between people. It embraces that these differences are the ingredients that add to rich and meaningful life experiences.

It is human nature to gravitate to others who have similar characteristics, beliefs, values, thoughts, patterns, etc., and to be with “like minded” people.  But think about it–and ask yourself as you go through your process of change and your daily life–are you limiting yourself and others by getting too comfortable in this state and maybe even inadvertently closing yourself off to socializing, working with and meeting others?

By rejecting or not fully accepting the uniqueness or diversity of others, are you creating barriers to your growth and progress, and even more so, hindering the growth and the potential of community? Diversity is a fertile source of strength, creativity and innovation. Through its synthesis it gives rise to the power of the whole.

Common joys and pains may bring us together. Heritage and tradition may give us roots. Culture, values and beliefs may center us. But diversity makes us unique. Diversity resides in each of us (The Language of Your Soul) and adds to the richness not only of who we are but more importantly to the richness of the whole.

Key to truly embracing diversity is an open heart and mind, not being judgmental–and appreciating and being grateful for the differences we all have. Understanding and accepting people from all walks of life is key to finding peace in our lives. Remember that diversity is a word that encourages inclusion by illuminating what is different in all of us. We should celebrate our unique selves and others. And reflect that all of us have intrinsic, unique value. Diversity is a gift that we should cherish.

To help inspire you in embracing diversity and the unique warrior in each of us, here is a link to “I Am Diversity, Please Include Me” by Charles Bennafield

http://simmaliebermansinclusionblog.blogspot.com/2012/03/i-am-diversity-outstanding-poem.html

Enjoy!

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